Friday, November 14, 2008
Marriage
The union of two souls.....as marriage is often defined....is far from reality on the practical front. Its not very often that we find a man with such tremendous love, compassion and respect for women, who actually takes marriage as a 50-50 pact.
Isn't marriage a companionship for life? why do we find that almost everywhere, marriage has become more of a duty done with a shrug!! For a happy married life, there should be equal participation and sharing of responsibilities among partners in daily life.
Often we hear people saying that marriage is full of compromises. Compromise is a very relative term. If one has a loving partner, one automatically tends to do things for his/her partner without feeling resentment and compulsion. So, if u feel u are compromising, then its more of a functional relation and not a lasting one based on mutual love and care.
People are eventually realizing that wife alone doesn't account for the success or failure of a marriage. Though more true is the fact that, women try their hard to retain even the worst kind of relation. With due credit, women are really accountable for pulling off even the difficult of marriages. But on the other hand, women today are equally not afraid to walk out on failed relationships, and thanks to them, men are learning to be more caring, more understanding and more compromising and less selfish to maintain a healthy union called marriage.
Hence, marriage is a partnership......where both partners walk hand in hand...and walk away with equal profits.....
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